Игра в желание. Как найти любовь за 60 дней (примечания)

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«Рэмс» — футбольная команда Лос-Анджелеса.

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Nancy Jo Sales, «Tinder and the Dawn of the ‘Dating Apocalypse,’» Vanity Fair, September 2016, https://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2015/08/tinder-hook-up-culture-end-of-dating.

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David Brooks, The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement (New York: Random House, 2011), xii.

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«America’s Families and Living Arrangements: 2014,» United States Census Bureau, last modified May 4, 2018, https://www.census.gov/data/tables/2014/demo/families/cps-2014.html.

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Jon Birger, Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (New York: Workman Publishing Company, 2015), 3, 54.

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Nancy Jo Sales, Swiped. Documentary. Directed by Nancy Jo Sales, featuring Tim MacGougan. New York City: Consolidated Documentaries. 2018. 38:00.

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Sales, Swiped, 38:00.

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«Sexually Transmitted Surveillance 2017,» Centers for Disease Control, last reviewed October 15, 2018, https://www.cdc.gov/std/stats17/default.htm.

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Ty Tashiro, The Science of Happily Ever After: What Really Matters in the Quest for Enduring Love (New York: Harlequin, 2014), 27–45.

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Рабочую тетрадь можно найти по ссылке: https://www.thegameofdesire.com/workbook (прим. ред.).

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Gary Chapman, The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts (Chicago: Northfield Publishing, 2015).

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Chris Rock, Kill the Messenger, HBO, January 2009.

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Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas, The Five Languages of Apology: How to Experience Healing in All Your Relationships (Chicago: Moody Publishers, 2006).

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Amir Levine, Rachel Heller, Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find — and Keep — Love (Penguin, 2010), Chapter 1, Decoding Behaviors, 8.

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Personality Traits, second edition by Gerald Matthews, Ian J. Deary and Martha C. Whiteman, https://web.archive.org/web/20141205103724/http://elib.fk.uwks.ac.id/asset/archieve/e-book/PSYCHIATRIC-%20ILMU%20PENYAKIT%20JIWA/Personality%20Traits%2C%202nd%20Ed.pdf (Cambridge University Press, 2003).

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Tashiro, The Science of Happily Ever After, 174.

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Nick Kolenda, Methods of Persuasion: How to Use Psychology to Influence Human Behavior (Kolenda Entertainment, LLC, 2013), 17–18.

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James K. McNulty, Lisa A. Neff, Benjamin R. Karney, «Beyond Initial Attraction: Physical Attractiveness in Newlywed Marriage,» Journal of Family Psychology Vol 22, No. 1, 135–143. 2008.

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Robert Greene, The Art of Seduction (New York: Viking, 2001), 5–15; 133–136.

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Мелисса Хобли — директор по маркетингу OkCupid.

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«Race and Attraction, 2009–2014,» OkCupid, Sep 9, 2014, https://theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009–2014–107dcbb4f060.

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«How to Get From the Match to Matrimony,» The League Blog, February 14, 2018, http://www.theleague.com/how-to-get-from-match-to-marriage/#are-you-in.

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Taymour Mostafa, Ghada El Khouly, Ashraf Hassan, «Pheromones in sex and reproduction: Do they have a role in humans?» Journal of Advanced Research Vol. 3, Issue 1, 1–9. January 2012.

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Alan R. Hirsch, M.D. and Jason J. Gruss. «Human Male Sexual Response to Olfactory Stimuli,» American Academy of Neurological and Orthopaedic Surgeons, March 3, 2014, https://aanos.org/human-male-sexual-response-to-olfactory-stimuli/.

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«Don’t Let Scent Insufficiency Take Over — Join Gain® and Renowned Smell Expert Dr. Alan Hirsch to Bring Back the Pleasant Aroma and Freshness You May Be Missing in Your Life!» Business Wire (June 4, 2013), https://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20130604006458/en/Dont-Scent-Insufficiency-Join-Gain.

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Стив Харви — специалист по отношениям, автор бестселлера «Поступай как женщина, думай как мужчина».

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Alice H. Eagly, Richard D. Ashmore, Mona G. Makhijani, Laura C. Longo, «What Is Beautiful Is Good, But…: A Meta-Analytic Review of Research on the Physical Attractiveness Stereotype,» Psychological Bulletin 110, 109–128. 1991.

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Tashiro, The Science of Happily Ever After, 102, 135–143.

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Tashiro, The Science of Happily Ever After, 102.

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Arthur Aron, Edward Melinat, Elaine N. Aron, Robert Darrin Vallone, Renee J. Bator, «The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness: A Procedure and Some Preliminary Findings,» Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, Vol. 23, 363–377, 1997, https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167297234003.

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Dutton, D. G., Aaron, A. P. «Some evidence for heightened sexual attraction under conditions of high anxiety,» Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 30(4) 1974: 510–517.

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Эстер Перель — психотерапевт, автор бестселлера «Право на „лево“».

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Esther Perel, «The Secret to Desire in a Long-Term Relationship.» YouTube (TEDx Talks), February 14, 2013, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sa0RUmGTCYY&t=29s.

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Copyblogger, «The 5 Most Persuasive Words in the English Language,» by Greggory Ciotti, December 6, 2012, https://www.copyblogger.com/persuasive-copywriting-words/.

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Raj Persaud, «The Psychology of Seduction.» YouTube (TEDx Talks), July 7, 2016, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3E46oWB4V0s&feature=youtu.be&t=6m15s.

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J, The Sensuous Woman (Lyle Stuart, 1969), 104; 169–170.

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Микропигментация волос, или трихопигментация, — точечная имплантация пигмента в верхние слои кожи головы с помощью очень тонкой иглы. Процедуру проводят с целью создания эффекта более густых волос или чтобы скорректировать линию роста волос, скрыть шрамы на голове. Очень часто к этой процедуре прибегают после пересадки волос или круговой подтяжки лица.


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